Dear Infertile Friend,
I am sorry I started this letter with “Dear ‘Infertile’ Friend”. I am sorry I labelled you ‘Infertile’, because if there is any one single wish I had in the world, it wouldn’t be ‘I wish I was pregnant with my child’, it would be ‘I wish there was no such thing as infertility’. I do not wish infertility upon even my worst enemy. Infertility is not a label, and it doesn’t define you, so I am so so sorry I started this letter in this way. But….I am differentiating you from my non-infertile friends because you have given me something my non-fertile friends are unable to. This letter is to say thank you. Thank you for helping me get to where I am today, yes I am still empty arms, but I am stronger now than I was when I started this winding, mountainous path called infertility.
It doesn’t matter where you are in your infertility journey, you have given me something that has made me stronger. Whether you have just discovered you are less than fertile, going through medicated treatment, IUIs, IVF, surrogacy, donor eggs/sperm/embryos, adoption, child-free living, pregnant after treatment or living with your rainbow baby – you have amazed me.
To those who have shared with me their intimate stories of struggles, pain and, most importantly – light, you have inspired me to stay strong on my path. Whether you shared just a brief snapshot into your life or have shared every minute of every step of the way – it has all added up to how I feel today. Stronger with you in my life.
My friend, you have layed open your heart on the table, exposed it, allowed it to be vulnerable just so you could help me understand what lay ahead of me – so I could prepare for the good, the bad and the damn right ugly.
Please do not underestimate the power of your voice and how it has touched me. I can’t measure it – but just know that it has.
Thank you,
Your Infertile Friend X
Thank you my friend for being brave enough to share your story, one that is so unfair it brings me to tears. Thank you for taking the time to support others even in your darkest hour xxxxx
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So sweet of you to think of others when you have so much going on for yourself xoxo
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You my friend have a heart of gold and are an inspiration. While you are going through all of this excruciating stuff, you are still thinking about others and sharing your story. You are an amazing women and I am grateful to have you in my life.
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You are such a beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for this, and for your support. *hugs*
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Thank you for sharing your story! You are an amazing person and I wish none of us knew the struggle and baggage that comes with that word “infertility”.
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What a beautiful letter. Love you, my Friend!
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Beautiful. You are very strong, but you never have to be strong alone.
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