There are some benefits of telling your work colleagues that you are about to go through IVF. My new cubicle buddy told me that she gave injections for her friend going through IVF – so she not only knows all about IVF, but also has the injectible skills! Haha! She kindly offered to give me any of my injections if I needed the assistance. So if we have an emergency like the time Chris had to stab me in his work car park…my cubicle angel will be there for me 🙂 In fact, another friend at work has also offered her assistance too with the injections (she has never given one before, but isn’t squeamish about it like me!). I am loving the love and feel very grateful to be surrounded by such lovely friends 🙂
Category: IVF
Where to go for more information about IVF?
When we decided to go ahead with IVF at our last appointment, the doctor gave us a rundown about the whole process, but I did not learn anything new that I had read about already. Of course, I had done some research on top google hits about the process in general. I have also been following a few blogs about ladies going through IVF themselves. But I will be honest…I have not really stepped up to my usual level of research. Probably because I thought I had plenty of time before we start this. Also I’ve been keeping myself busy the last couple of weeks, both at work and at play. Next week we have our first appointment with our nurse, so I want to make sure I ask all the right question from the outset. And so, the time has come! I feel like I have a big gaping hole in my knowledge and I need to fill it…stat!!
When I first started following blogs I was put off following IVF blogs that were overly acronym-ised and had lots of numbers on it. Without any reference, it felt like gobbley-de-gook to me. In fact it was (and still is) terrifying. I am sure it will all make sense soon, but for now I am following a select few who make it easy to read for newbies (thank you for that by the way!). But where do I start my research?
Areas I would like to better understand:
- Medication for IVF
- Embryology
- Ethics
- ICSI
- Complimentary Therapies
- The statistics low down! Because I just can’t help myself being an analyst by trade, I’ve got to know!
Do you have any good suggestions for books or websites that you have found helpful with your IVF journey?
Surprise surprise!!!! IVF!
Well my blog post title has given the game away, so in summary…our next step will be In-Vitro Fertilisation!
This morning we met with our RE who reviewed our progress so far, or lack there of. Our tests were all normal, the three IUIs all went according to plan (except of course for the pregnancy part), I responded well to the letrozole with 2-3 follicles, Chris had awesome sperm. We remain unexplained, but she does still suspect endometriosis. If my period pains were so bad that they affected my life and I wanted that to change then she would recommend a laparoscopy. This surgical procedure comes with risk, side effects and can take several months to return to normal, so if my periods were so bad this would be the way forward, however, in my case the benefits are unlikely to outweigh the downsides. So she recommends we move straight to IVF. She explained the overall process:
Week 1 to 2 – after menstruation I start birth control pills for about 14 days, these help to control my hormones
Week 3 – start injectable medications to control ovulation and stimulate follicles to grow – many many more than the 2-3 that were stimulated with letrozole in order to get the best chance of retrieving some ‘good eggs’.
Week 4 – continue injectable medications…have ultrasounds every other day to monitor follicle growth, along with blood work to monitor hormone levels. When the follicles are ready, we will inject the hCG Ovidrel trigger and 36 hours later I go for egg retrieval surgery. Under sedation my eggs are extracted from my ovaries. Chris provides his sperm and my eggs are fertilised in-vitro. After the eggs have been fertilised, the embryos grow for a few days under close watch. Then if they survive, one or two embryos are transferred directly into my uterus.
Week 5-6 – start injectable progesterone until the big pregnancy test either says – “woohoo you are preggers”! then I stay on progesterone, or…”booooo it’s a BFN my friend”, then we will…..well, let’s not go there right now.
This is everything I expected her to say, except for two things slightly different.
- First, I need to go for a hydrosonogram. This procedure will produce a 3D ultrasound of my uterus. I will have this last test because I have a severely retroverted uterus they could not see it very well on the HSG X-ray, they want to double check that there is nothing preventing the implantation stage.
I have been promised this does not hurt quite as bad as the HSG. THANKFULLY!!!!
- Secondly, she thinks it would be a good idea to do Intra-Cytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI) because we are ‘unexplained’.
This is a procedure where a single sperm is selected and injected directly into the egg rather than normal IVF where the sperm is placed near the egg. This procedure is an extra $2,420 so we need to check whether our insurance would cover this or not.
Talking of costs….it is going to cost $9,075 for the IVF which includes office visits, endocrine monitoring, ultrasounds, retrieval, transfer and first pregnancy test. Plus, it is an additional $400 for the anaesthesia. Medication will be approximately $4,000 to $6,000. Then the ICSI procedure is $2,420. Cryopreservation is $1000 then $60 a month for any embryos frozen. Yikes!!!! But we roughly knew this anyway, it’s just a bit scary seeing it listed out like this.
So for now, we start the negotiating with our insurance and the diary planning. It’s looking like a late June start.
Ultimately, today I walked away with this one key figure she gave: for us – a 50% chance of success. In my mind that is pretty amazing. I’ll take that. I’ve always been a glass half full kind of girl, lately it’s been half empty, today I think I’ve been topped back up 🙂
Thank you for all your support and kind thoughts so far, I’m feeling pretty encouraged this will work!


