The big question: why did I write about something that happened way back in 2007? Why did I open up some old wounds by writing and thinking about when I was pregnant in Iraq? For the most part, it’s because I drove for four hours on my own, so I had plenty of time to think. Very dangerous, I know! Thinking AND driving! But actually, it is because I have a fear, a fear of being pregnant again. It sounds rather silly writing it down on an infertility blog. But of course I want to be pregnant more than anything in the world, but this fear is about suffering the ‘side effects’ of severe morning sickness like I did before in 2007.
Last time I was pregnant I suffered severe morning sickness (also known as Hyperemesis gravidarum) and horrific abdominal pains (compared to my normal Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) pains, these were what I considered to be horrific anyway!) The worst of the symptoms lasted for over three weeks and the nausea continued until the end of my pregnancy of 10 weeks. There was no way I could have worked during this period. But to what extent were those symptoms as a result of the environment and conditions I was experiencing at the time – heat, exhaustion, stress, poor food quality and choice?
When Chris and I first met with our Reproductive Endocrinologist (RE), Chris asked her if my previous pregnancy could be a clue as to why we were not pregnant yet. I didn’t think it would be so I hadn’t mentioned the severe morning sickness in my questionnaire. The RE did confirm that it was not likely to be associated. But, now that I think about it, perhaps it wasn’t such a silly question after all. Because quite frankly, any explanation to our fertility troubles would be nice right now. I’m quite bored of asking ‘Why me??’
Today I am 12 Days Past IUI number 2 (12DPIUI#2), and so far potential symptoms of pregnancy:
- Short sharp cramps just around both sides of my ovaries
- Sharp cramp like pains under the left side and right side of my ribs.
- Sore boobs, but not tender to touch, just achey.
- Today I have felt a little nauseous, but Chris has had a funny tummy today, so potentially we ate something funny.
And that is it, not much to go by, but the sharp pains reminded me of my previous pregnancy so I have been more positive about this cycle so far. Just two more days to go til the big test.
I am afraid to be pregnant but want to be pregnant more than anything.
And that sums up my emotional roller coaster right now 🙂 /\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/——